Click on some of the links below to view see some of our previous events, documentories made about us and some "from the heart" write ups explaining how it felt to come here to Safe Haven for the first time.

First Experiences
As much as we'd like to be able to describe what it's like to receive the love and support from us here at Safe Haven....unfortunately that's very difficult as it needs to be experienced. Click on the icon below to read some of what people have to say about us.

First Experiences

Previous Party Weekends
New Years Eve 2018
Christmas 2018
Halloween 2018
6th/7th October 2018
24/25/26th August (Bank Holiday) 2018
3rd/4th August 2018
6th/7th July 2018
1st/2nd June 2018
6/7th April 2018
3/4th March 2018 (Cancelled due to weather!)

3/4th February 2018
30th/31st December 2017 (New Years Eve) 
1/3rd December 2017 (Christmas) 
27/28th Octoberber 2017 (Halloween) 

29/30th September 2017 
26/27/28th August 2017 
29/30th July 2017 
30th June/1st July 2017
12/13th May 2017 
14/15th April 2017 (Easter)
17/18th March 2017 (Burlesque) 
17/18th February 2017
27/28th January 2017  
2/3rd December 2016  
11/12th November 2016

29th October 2016 (Halloween) 
1st October 2016 (Feral Scent)  
17th September 2016
29/30th July 2016 
10/11th June 2016  
13/14th May 2016 (Burlesque)
22/23rd April 2016           

Prides
25th August 2018 (Cornwall Pride)
26th August 2017 (Cornwall Pride)
27th August 2016 (Cornwall Pride)

Holidays
March 2017 - Gran Canaria

Short Films
Maids in Cornwall

We hold a "party weekend" every month, most come down on the Friday and go home on Sunday, we have lots of accomodation avaiable. It's a perfect opportunity for those who may not be able to come out at their own homes a chance to dress and socialise with friends. We often have make up artists, nail technicians eyelash extension beauticians, pop up shops etc. which we publicise within our Facebook group.

Family and friends often join us and really appreciate the opportunity to discuss things with Pixie, and other people.

We understand the complexities and anxieties that come with a loved one being transgender or non-binary, especially when it has only just been revealed. Meeting with people who empathise and understand can make all the difference.

If you have not been to one of our events then we please ask that you contact us first so that we can verify who you are, this reassures our regulars that the venue remains a safe and secure one. Admirers will not be admitted.

 

Friday 1st February 2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising with DJ Emma Shard

Saturday 2nd February 2019 - Party Night with DJ Stephanie Gilbert. 7.30pm.

Friday 1st March  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising with DJ Emma Shard.

Saturday 2nd March 2019 - Party Night. Live music with singer Stevie D, performing songs from the 60s, 70s and 70s, supported by DJ Nicole Stone. 7.30pm

Friday 5th April  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising with DJ Emma Shard.

Saturday 6th April  2019 - Party Night with DJ Nicole Stone Stone. Samantha Shields birthday bash. 7.30pm

Friday 3rd May  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising

Saturday 4th May  2019 - Party Night ... Star Wars Day! Fancy dress optional. DJ Stephanie Gilbert. 7.30pm

Saturday 11th May  2019 - Exeter Pride. We will be doing the March with the Safe Haven Banner, putting the T in LGBT. All welcome to join us.

Friday 7th June  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising.

Saturday 8th June  2019 - Party Night with DJ Nicole Stone. 7.30pm

Friday 5th July  2019 - Chill Night, Supper at Miss Mollys, then pool, karaoke, and socialising in the Batcave.

Saturday 6th July  2019 - Party Night with DJ Nicole Stone

Saturday 12th/13th July  2019 - Sparkle Weekend in Manchester

Friday 3rd August  2019 - Chill Night with DJEmma Shard. Miss mollys at 7.30 then back to the batcave for karaoke, dancing and pool.

Saturday 4th August  2019 - Party Night with DJ Steph Gilbert.

Saturday 17th August  2019 - Plymouth Pride

Saturday 24th August  2019 - Cornwall Pride

Saturday 7th September  2019 - Totnes Pride

Friday 4th October  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising with DJ Emma Shard.

Saturday 5th October  2019 - Party Night with DJ Steph Gilbert. 7.30pm

Friday 1st November  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising with DJ Emma Shard.

Saturday 2nd November  2019 - Halloween Party Night with DJ Nicole Stone

Friday 6th December  2019 - Chill Night, starting at Miss Molly’s tearooms for supper at 7.30pm, then back to the Batcave for karaoke, pool and socialising with DJ Emma Shard.

Saturday 7th December  2019 - Christmas Party Night. Secret Santa. DJ Steph Gilbert. 7.30pm.

Sunday 8th December 2019  - Christmas Dinner at Miss Molly’s Tearooms.

Monday 30th December  2019 - Pre Party Party!

Tuesday 31st December  2019 - New Years Eve Party

Friday nights are more of a chill out evening, we have recently started going down to Miss Molly's Tea Room for our Friday evening meal, such a lovely venue, great food at great prices, and we have the whole place to ourselves, thus extending our safe surroundings (for those of you that would prefer not to venture over there with us you are welcome to wait for us back at Safe Haven, one our regulars will gladly keep you company). The rest of the evening is spent back at Safe Haven chatting in our bar area, playing pool, sometimes Karaoke, sometimes a little boogie on the dance floor, we tend to make up Friday evenings as we go.

Saturday nights are our official party nights, we have top quality disco equipment and some amazing lighting effects, get your song requests to our DJ and dance the night away having lots of fun, you obviously don't have to dance (but it is kind of infectious), you can just chill at the bar/seating area chatting if you wish.

*The hot buffet is included in the accommodation price for Saturday nights (Special Events). We please request that guests who are not staying overnight contribute to cover the food cost if they wish to dine with us.

Accommodation is available at our venue but please let us know if you wish to stay (Extra B&B accomodation is also available... see bottom of this page).

As always our parties are safe, supportive and friendly, no strangers here...just friends you haven't met yet.

Any questions please ask

Extra accommodation (B&B) available at events
For those of you who desire a little more comfort or privacy when you atend our events..... one of our regular tGirls is kindly offering B&B at her beautiful home which is half a mile from us. She currently has 3 double rooms (although she has plans to make one room twin bedded ) £25 per person per night for 2 sharing, single occupancy £30.

Please see further details here.