We hold a "party weekend" every month, most come down on the Friday and go home on Sunday, we have lots of accomodation avaiable. It's a perfect opportunity for those who may not be able to come out at their own homes a chance to dress and socialise with friends. We often have make up artists, nail technicians eye lash extension beauticians, pop up shops etc. which we publicise within our Facebook group.

 Family and friends often join us and really appreciate the opportunity to discuss things with Pixie, and other people.

We understand the complexities and anxieties that come with a loved one being transgender or non-binary, especially when it has only just been revealed.

Meeting with people who empathise and understand can make all the difference.

If you have not been to one of our events then we please ask that you contact us first so that we can verify who you are, this reassures our regulars that the venue remains a safe and secure one.

Admirers will not be admitted!


Our next party weekend will be in December 2018

....and it will be our Christmas party


Come on down and party with us, it's always gauranteed to be a great weekend!  Licensed bar and hot buffet on the Saturday night.*

Friday night is more of a chill out evening, we have recently started going down to Miss Molly's Tea Room for our Friday evening meal, such a lovely venue, great food at great prices, and we have the whole place to ourselves, thus extending our safe surroundings (for those of you that would prefer not to venture over there with us you are welcome to wait for us back at Safe Haven, one our regulars will gladly keep you company). The rest of the evening is spent back at Safe Haven chatting in our bar area, playing pool, sometimes Karaoke, sometimes a little boogie on the dance floor, we tend to make up Friday evenings as we go.

Saturday night is the official party night, we have top quality disco equipment and some amazing lighting effects, get your song requests to our DJ and dance the night away having lots of fun, you obviously don't have to dance (but it is kind of infectious), you can just chill at the bar/seating area chatting if you wish.

*The hot buffet is included in the accommodation price for the Saturday night. We please request that guests who are not staying overnight contribute to cover the food cost if they wish to dine with us.

 Please contact us for further details/dates of this months party weekend. Accommodation is available at our venue but please let us know if you wish to stay (Extra B&B accomodation is also available... see bottom of this page).

As always our parties are safe, supportive and friendly, no strangers here...just friends you haven't met yet.

Any questions please ask

Extra accommodation (B&B) available at events

For those of you who desire a little more comfort or privacy when you atend our events..... one of our regular tGirls is kindly offering B&B at her beautiful home which is half a mile from us. She currently has 3 double rooms (although she has plans to make one room twin bedded ) £25 per person per night for 2 sharing, single occupancy £30.

Please contact us if you wish to book.